ISPs are free to do anything they choose with blocklists, and some do choose to use spam lists to block all connections. I make no claim to understand why they would do so. Similarly, if an ISP is filtering all ports to a particular IP address, there would be no reason for it to be listed in the postmaster system you linked to. The real test for the mail is whether or not you receive new post notifications from this forum when subscribed to do so, and whether or not you can attempt to send to a random address @bchemnet.com (which should result in a failure notice due to invalid address). That explicitly tests both directions of the connection, at least via that particular mechanism.
Your nmap scan is inconclusive. If my provider were blocking your connections entirely, you would not receive open port notices. Therefore, some sort of more specific filtering is going on, but nmap would be unable to resolve the source of that filter. Both my provider and their server host maintain that they do absolutely no filtering of any kind based on IP and domains (I have exchanged several messages with them recently), and my particular server is also not configured to do so.
At this point, the only thing I can do is to suggest that those having trouble connecting bring it up to their providers, to at least find out if they claim to be doing any blocking. I have already investigated the issue as far as I am able to at my end, and the conclusion is that there should not be any connection issues. As I already stated, overall traffic to the site has not significantly changed since I moved providers, so this is affecting only a small number of people and I don't see any obvious pattern (admittedly, the sample size of known people affected is very small). If connection issues persist, there are public proxies that can be used to work around the problem - which I concede is annoying, but also not my fault.
Your nmap scan is inconclusive. If my provider were blocking your connections entirely, you would not receive open port notices. Therefore, some sort of more specific filtering is going on, but nmap would be unable to resolve the source of that filter. Both my provider and their server host maintain that they do absolutely no filtering of any kind based on IP and domains (I have exchanged several messages with them recently), and my particular server is also not configured to do so.
At this point, the only thing I can do is to suggest that those having trouble connecting bring it up to their providers, to at least find out if they claim to be doing any blocking. I have already investigated the issue as far as I am able to at my end, and the conclusion is that there should not be any connection issues. As I already stated, overall traffic to the site has not significantly changed since I moved providers, so this is affecting only a small number of people and I don't see any obvious pattern (admittedly, the sample size of known people affected is very small). If connection issues persist, there are public proxies that can be used to work around the problem - which I concede is annoying, but also not my fault.